tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-189191442024-03-13T04:32:20.360-07:00Drug and Alcohol RehabDrug Rehab & Alcohol Rehabilitation information for both suffering & recovering addicts as well as addiction treatment professionals.AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-34165915927525838312007-03-15T16:21:00.000-07:002007-03-15T16:23:10.283-07:00Daily Reflection for 3/15/07<span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Hard On Ourselves, Considerate Of Others, p.240<br /><br /></span></span>We cannot disclose anything to our wives or our parents which will hurt them and make them unhappy. We have no right to save our own skins at their expense.<br /><br />Such damaging parts of our story we tell to someone else who will understand, yet be unaffected. The rule is, we must be hard on ourselves, but always considerate of others.<br /><br />Good judgment will suggest that we ought to take our time in making amends to our families. It may be unwise at first to rehash certain harrowing episodes. While we may be quite willing to reveal the very worst, we must be sure to remember that we cannot buy our own peace of mind at the expense of others.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">1. Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 74</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">2. 12 & 12, p. 84 </span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1153976363965422462006-07-26T21:58:00.000-07:002006-12-15T22:02:02.856-08:00Daily Reflection for 7/26/06 - "Hangovers"...Hangovers<br /><br />When a drunk has a terrific hangover because he drank heavily yesterday, he cannot live well today.<br /><br />But there is another kind of hangover which we all experience whether we are drinking or not. That is the emotional hangover, the direct result of yesterday's and sometimes today's excesses of negative emotion -- anger, fear, jealousy, and the like.<br /><br />If we would live serenely today and tomorrow, we certainly need to eliminate these hangovers.<br /><span style="font-style:italic;"><br />Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 88</span><br /><br /><br />Thought to Ponder . . .<br /><br />Serenity is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to cope with it.<br /><br /><br />AA-related 'Alconym' . . .<br /><br />N U T S = Not Using The Steps.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1152119647302007082006-07-05T10:05:00.000-07:002007-03-08T00:15:12.380-08:00Daily Reflection for 7/5/06... "A NEW DIRECTION"<span style="font-style:italic;">Our human resources, as marshalled by the will, were not sufficient; they failed utterly. . . Every day is a day when we must carry the vision of God's will into all our activities.</span><br /><br />ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.45,85 <br /><br />I hear talk of the "weak-willed" alcoholic, but I am one of the strongest-willed people on earth! I now know that my incredible strength of will is not enough to save my life. My problem is not one of "weakness," but rather of direction. When I, without falsely diminishing myself, accept my honest limitations and turn to God's guidance, my worst faults become my greatest assets. My strong will, rightly directed, keeps me working until the promises of the program become my daily reality. <br /><br />**********<br /><br />I love the promises, although when I was just getting out of <a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com" title="Drug Rehab">drug rehab</a> I had no idea how they could ever come true. I was reminded of exactly how this morning, when I ran into a good friend's fiancee outside the coffee shop. It turns out that my friend has kept to himself the fact that he's had a 7-year old daughter living in another country (the Netherlands). Perhaps this was a reason that he'd relapsed so many times, over & over again. The mother of the girl & the daughter have actually come to visit both of these friends of mine, and while they were really shaken up & nervous at first, they now see it as an opportunity to address a situation that had previously gone ignored & neglected. What a great chance he has! Incredibly, my friend has taken it really well, and they're working through the issues that have caused so much pain for so many years. A new direction indeed!<br /><br />If you want to learn more about where I went to <a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com">Drug Rehab</a>, just follow the link. If you've come to visit because of a <a href="http://www.meditoxofpalmbeach.com/painkiller-addiction.aspx">painkiller addiction</a> and want a new sort of treatment for <a href="http://www.meditoxofpalmbeach.com">drug detox</a>, follow that link instead.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1151685242199928282006-06-30T09:32:00.000-07:002006-06-30T10:14:12.780-07:00Daily Reflection for 6/30/06 "SACRIFICE = UNITY = SURVIVAL "<script type="text/javascript"><!--<br />google_ad_client = "pub-6719308397835730";<br />google_ad_width = 300;<br />google_ad_height = 250;<br />google_ad_format = "300x250_as";<br />google_ad_type = "text";<br />google_ad_channel ="0510731143";<br />//--></script><br /><script type="text/javascript"<br /> src="http://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/show_ads.js"><br /></script><br /><br />The unity, the effectiveness, and even the survival of A. A. will always depend upon our continued willingness to give up some of our personal ambitions and desires for the common safety and welfare. Just as sacrifice means survival for the individual alcoholic, so does sacrifice means unity and survival for the group and for A. A.'s entire Fellowship.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">AS BILL SEES IT, p. 220</span><br /><br />I have learned that I must sacrifice some of my personality traits for the good of A. A. and, as a result, I have been rewarded with many gifts. False pride can be inflated through prestige but, by living Tradition Six, I receive the gift of humility instead. Cooperation without affiliation is often deceiving. If I remain unrelated to outside interest, I am free to keep A. A. autonomous. Then the Fellowship will be here, healthy and strong for generations to come.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1151302472878762882006-06-25T23:12:00.000-07:002006-06-25T23:15:04.770-07:00Daily Reflection for 6/25/06<font><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(178, 162, 136);"><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">A TWO-WAY STREET </span></span><span style="color: rgb(178, 162, 136);"><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">If we ask, God will certainly forgive our derelictions. But in no case does He render us white as snow and keep us that way without our cooperation.</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: italic;">TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 65 </span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">When I prayed, I used to omit a lot of things for which I needed to be forgiven. I thought that if I didn't mention those things to God, He would never know about them. I did not know that if I had just forgiven myself for some of my past deeds, God would forgive me also. I was always taught to prepare for the journey through life, never realizing until I came to A.A. when I honestly became willing to be taught forgiveness and forgiving that life itself is the journey. The journey of life is a very happy one, as long as I am willing to accept change and responsibility. </span></font><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1149173895086915782006-06-01T07:56:00.000-07:002006-06-01T07:58:15.096-07:00Daily Reflection for 6/1/06 "Serenity"<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-style: italic;">I came back to my little apartment in Saigon,</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">ready to return to my medical work.</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">I was so beaten because I'd been driving and searching</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">and clenching my fists for almost three years. . .</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">I came into my apartment and suddenly collapsed on the floor.</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">I was breathing kind of heavily and said to myself,</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">"Oh, to hell with serenity, I don't care if it ever comes."</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">And I meant it.</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">And do you know what happened?</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">All of a sudden the craving to find serenity</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">utterly evaporated -- and in its place was serenity.</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">The trouble was the search . . . looking out there</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">for what was right here.</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">October 1995 interview with Dr. Earle M., author of "Physician, Heal Thyself"<br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Best of the Grapevine [Vol. 3], p. 142</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1146281267654828932006-04-28T20:25:00.000-07:002006-04-28T20:27:47.666-07:00Daily Reflection for 4/28/06: "No Cop-outs!"We have to stay sober no matter how life treats us, no matter whether nonalcoholics appreciate our sobriety or not.<br /><br />We have to keep our sobriety independent of anything else, not entangled with any people, and not hedged in by any possible cop-outs or conditions.<br /><br />Over and over, we have found we cannot stay sober long just for the sake of wife, husband, children, lover,parents, other relative, or friend, nor for the sake of a job, nor to please a boss (or doctor or judge or creditor) -- not for anyone other than ourselves. <br /><br /><i>Living Sober, p. 64</i><br /><h3>Thought to Ponder . . .</h3><span style="font-style:italic;"><br />Having a slip is not an option.<br />Staying sober is the solution. </span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1146087132467132122006-04-26T14:30:00.000-07:002006-04-26T14:32:12.483-07:00Daily Reflection for 4/26/06 "Making Constant Efforts..."<h2>"...to Excercise Our Choice"</h2><br /><br />This is the state [meditation] of being which so often discovers and deepens a conscious contact with God.<br /><br /><i>As Bill Sees It</i> Page 108<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1144705548470528312006-04-10T14:41:00.001-07:002006-04-10T14:45:48.473-07:00Daily Reflection for 4/10/2006 "Striving to Achieve..."<span style="font-weight:bold;">"Striving to Achieve The Best We Can."</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">It has taught me that success and failure are never final, and that neither count for very much in the final assessment of any man who has done his best.<br /></span> <span style="font-style:italic;">Page 525 / Third Edition</span><br /><br />My best is all I can do. There are no regrets, no attachments to expectations, no emotional turmoil when I know that I did my best. Whether it's making amends or simply taking contrary action to maintain a positive day-to-day lifestyle, I know that I've done well if I can say that I did my best. Even if I fail, I will always try for progress. <span style="font-style:italic;">Doing my best to make progress</span>, therefore, is my highest honor in sobriety, and brings me endless joy on a constant basis!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1144639850923806682006-04-09T20:28:00.000-07:002006-04-09T20:30:50.923-07:00Daily Reflection for 4/9/06 "Growing Up..."<span style="font-weight:bold;">GROWING UP </span><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">The essence of all growth is a willingness to change for the better and then an unremitting willingness to shoulder whatever responsibility this entails.<br /></span><br />AS BILL SEES IT, p. 115 <br /><br />Sometimes when I've become willing to do what I should have been doing all along, I want praise and recognition. I don't realize that the more I'm willing to act differently, the more exciting my life is. The more I am willing to help others, the more rewards I receive. That's what practicing the principles means to me. Fun and benefits for me are in the willingness to do the actions, not to get immediate results. Being a little kinder, a little slower to anger, a little more loving makes my life better--day by day. <br /><br />--This post was courtesy of J.J. from <a href="http://www.recoveryuniverse.com" target="_blank">Recovery Universe</a>. Keep up the great work, J.J.!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1144252321771876342006-04-05T08:52:00.000-07:002006-04-05T08:52:01.806-07:00Daily Reflection for 4/5/06 -- "Continually Working..."<span style="font-weight:bold;">"Continually Working At Letting It Go."</span><br /><br />It is a spiritual axiom that every time we are disturbed, no matter what the cause, there is something wrong with us. If somebody hurts us and we are sore, we are in the wrong also. We have found that justified anger ought to be left to those better qualified to handle it."<br /><br /> --<span style="font-style:italic;">12 and 12</span>, Page 90<br /><br />********************************************<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1144093288593227332006-04-03T12:41:00.000-07:002006-04-03T12:41:28.636-07:00Daily Reflection for 4/3/2006<span style="font-weight:bold;">Much the Same as Like Reinvesting..."</span><br /><br />Gratitude should go forward rather than backward. In other words, if you carry the message to still others, you will be making the best possible repayment for the help given you.<br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">As Bill Sees It / Page 29</span><br /><br />**************<br />I was recently in touch with some newcomers who were having some really difficult times. In an effort to offer some sound guidance, I relied upon the knowledge that Gratitude is always a phenomenal remedy for emotional turmoil & difficult times. I suggested that the newbies take a moment, learn the difference between "gratitude" & "thankfulness" (as my sponsor made me), and then write down on paper 5 different things for which they're grateful. I asked them to call me back once they were done.<br /><br />I felt wonderful knowing that these newcomers to sobriety would soon feel the relief and warmth that I felt when I first began doing gratitude lists. I was happy that my God was able to give me the tools to offer others in need, just as I had been given the tools when I was in need. <br /><br />However, neither of the newcomers called back. No kidding. But I'm still sober & free. If they do call me again we'll do the same thing over, and expect a different result. And there lies the question: how can something so illogical & so amazing, daresay "insane" (drunks staying sober) actually take place? In the case of a newcomer who finally <span style="font-style:italic;">does get it</span>, we did it over and over again until we did get a different result! We did so because we have faith and we've seen it before. Amazing how that paradox of "insanity" works in the program. Quite beautiful, indeed, and I wouldn't have it any other way.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1138735175530964212006-01-31T11:18:00.000-08:002006-01-31T11:19:35.546-08:00Daily Reflection for 1/31/06 "Working at Staying..."<span style="font-weight:bold;">"...The Course." </span><br /><br />We have come to believe He would like us to keep our heads in the clouds with Him, but that our feet ought to be firmly planted on earth. That is where our fellow travelers are, and that is where our work must be done. <br /><br />Page 130<hr><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1137098934722423782006-01-12T12:47:00.000-08:002006-01-12T12:48:54.733-08:00Daily Reflection for 1/12/06 "Grateful for All Who..."<h3>"...Grateful For All Who Have Come Before Me."</h3><br />Almost none of us liked the self-searching, the leveling of our pride, the confession of shortcomings which the process required for its successful consummation. But we saw that it really worked in others, and we had come to believe in the hopelessness and the futility of life as we had been living it.<br /><br />Page 25<hr><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1137028548442087782006-01-11T17:15:00.000-08:002006-01-11T17:15:48.496-08:00Daily Reflection for 1/11/06 "...I Spoke Of You..."<strong>"...Shame on Me!"</strong><br /><br />Gossip barbed with our anger, a polite form of murder by character assassination, has its satisfactions for us, too. Here we are not trying to help those we criticize; we are trying to proclaim our own rightousness.<br /><br />12 and 12 / Page 67<hr><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1136922144841394282006-01-10T11:36:00.001-08:002006-01-10T11:42:24.843-08:00Daily Reflection for 1/10/06... "...A Good Hard Look...""...At Our Priorities."<br /><br />So the difference between "the boys and the men" is the difference between striving for a self-determined objective and for the perfect objective which is that of God.<br /><br />12 and 12 / Page 68<hr><br />I feel like this is the difference between having selfish motives and self-less motives. It's interesting that alcoholism & addiction of all things has given me a reason to be "selfless" (although I'm far from good at it).<br /><br />I recall several stories of people who were under large amounts of stress, or going through extremely tough times with a breakup, a death in the family, or some other tragedy. They were told to be "of service", and came back after that period of hardship and talked about how being of service was so powerful and so meaningful for them. This same principle of being "outwardly" focused and action-oriented is the key to selfless behavior for many eastern spiritual traditions as well. I like it.<br /><br />Be of service and help others so that your thoughts will not be so self-centered. It's impossible to be thinking about yourself while you're thinking about others. So be "of service" and you will <b><i>necessarily feel better</i></b>. What a beautiful lesson!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1136399596459714582006-01-04T10:23:00.000-08:002006-01-04T10:33:16.473-08:00Daily Reflection for 1/4/06 "...Prayer..."<strong>"...and Meditation"</strong><br /><br /><em>Our thought-life will be placed on a much higher plane when our thinking is cleared of wrong motives.</em><br /><br />Page 86<hr><br /><br />The purpose is to have a clear and positive state of mind. Are there any negative or harmful intentions in that? Is there anything to debate here? The fact of the matter is that I've alwasy felt better after prayer or after a meeting. I've never met anyone who didn't feel better after prayer or a meeting. It's beautiful knowing that there is an answer, isn't it?<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1135795521102743422005-12-28T10:41:00.000-08:002005-12-28T10:49:55.240-08:00Trudging the Road of Happy Destiny<center><strong>Dictionary</strong></center> <br /><em><strong>trudge </strong></em><br />verb [ intrans. ]<br /><em>walk slowly and with heavy steps, typically because of exhaustion or harsh conditions : I trudged up the stairs | she trudged through blinding snow.</em><br><br /><i><b>trudge</i></b> | noun<br /><em>a difficult or laborious walk : he began the long trudge back.</em><br><br />DERIVATIVES <br />trudger | <strong>noun</strong> -- ORIGIN mid 16th cent.(as a verb): <em>of unknown origin</em>.<hr><br /><center><strong>Thesaurus </strong></center> <br /><strong><em>trudge</em></strong> | verb<br /><em>they trudged through two miles of wet snow plod, tramp, tromp, drag oneself, walk heavily, walk slowly, plow, slog, toil, trek; informal traipse, galumph.</em><hr><br />Could this be the manner in which we attain our <i>slobriety</i>?? Absolutely! It's good to have the official definitions for phrases & terminology we use so frequently and oft too loosely. Personally, I love this trudge. It's definitely preferrable to the slow, inexorable decay of addiction & alcoholism. May I find many more of us <em>while trudging the road of happy destiny.</em> May God bless you & keep you... until then!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1135794708688713102005-12-28T10:26:00.000-08:002005-12-28T10:32:41.510-08:00Daily Reflection for 12/28/05 "...Until We Came To Believe."<strong>"...Until We Came To Believe."</strong><br /><br />The love of God and man we understood not at all. Therefore we remained self-deceived, and so incapable of receiving enough grace to restore us to sanity.<br /><br />12 and 12 / Page 32<hr><br />Mired in the darkness of alcoholism & addiction, I know that I was far too miserably demoralized to even <em>consider the possibility</em> that there was grace or love in the world. There <b>definitely</b> was no love for me. Who would love me??<br /><br />That was my mistake.<br /><br />After going through drug rehab and then learning the principles of the program, I've learned that there is so much love I don't know what to do with it all. In fact, I've learned that it is better to give love than to receive it, and that there is plenty of love to go around!!<br /><br />The love of God and man indeed. Please stick around to see the miracle--you will, if you are honest!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1135107017236846422005-12-20T11:21:00.000-08:002005-12-20T11:30:17.236-08:00Daily Reflection for 12/20/05 "...Continuing to Take...""...The Next Indicated Direction."<br /><br /><p>Some of us had already walked far over the Bridge of Reason toward the desired shore of faith. The outline and the promise of the New Land had brought luster to tired eyes and fresh courage to flagging spirits.</p><br /><br /><i>Page 53</i><hr><br />Alcoholics & Addicts are a stubborn & resilient bunch, aren't we? How much reinforcement do we need before we are willing to believe that life can be good? That life can get better? Personally, I had to go "To Hell & Back" (as my friend Pax puts it in his dad's book about The Alcoholism & Addiction Cure), before I was able to even consider the "New Land". All of us who ultimately "got it" had to go to our own personal Hell before we were willing to listen.<br /><br />But that's not necessarily what the book says! The book says "The outline and the promise...", not the "touch & feel" of the new land. That was enough to get us to keep going. Just the outline and the promise. Nothing more. Upon reflection it's amazing to me how little is really asked of us. We're not commanded to do anything, we're not given any edicts, rules, obligations or duties. Just the tiniest bit of open-mindedness and the most rigorous honesty & willingness are needed.<br /><br />To me, this passage is about maintenance of a drug and alcohol-free life, nothing more. It's about <i>Continuing</i> to take the next right action (or indicated direction). Don't stop! We're on the right path--Stay the course!<br /><br />I have full faith that we can all make it if we're willing to follow a simple program and be rigorously honest about a few simple steps. Who's with me??<br /><br />Have a great day...<br />*AP<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1134772541890292862005-12-16T14:26:00.000-08:002005-12-16T14:35:41.903-08:00Daily Reflection for 12/16/05: "...A Power..."<b>"..A Power...Greater Than Myself."</b><br /><br />...we discovered the best possible source of emotional stability to be God Himself. We found that dependence upon His perfect justice, forgiveness and love was healthy, and that it could work where nothing else would.<br /><br />12 and 12 / Page 116<br /><hr><br />Wow, what a thought. Coming to believe is exactly what needed to happen, because belief wasn't instantaneous by any stretch. It was gradual and slow, and then eventually (before I knew it) I was filled with incredible power to belive and manifest <i>whatever I wanted</i>. Why? Because I had the independence I never had before. I was able to <b>depend on the <i>perfect justice of the Universe</i></b> to let everything happen in exactly the way it should.<br /><br />On another thought, I want to apologize for not having posted these in a while, if there is anyone that's actually looking for these. I recently searched for "daily reflections" on Google, looking for another possible source for these things. Guess what? This very blog came up on my search as a possible source for daily reflections. It was at that moment that I felt this was an <b>obligation</b>, no longer a hobby or an experiment for those suffering from drug abuse or alcoholism. <br /><br />From now on, I will not only enhance the colors and the layout, but I will also be adding significantly more resources and subjects. These posts will fall under the "AA Daily Reflections" category.<br /><br />Be well! & Keep Coming Back (please) :-)<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1133285553698997102005-11-29T09:31:00.000-08:002005-11-29T09:32:34.166-08:00Daily Reflection for 11/29/05<h2>"Our Right Actions...Promise Enhanced Thinking."<hr></h2><br /><strong>Then comes the day when, finally freed in large degree from rebellion, we practice humility because we deeply want it as a way of life.</strong><br /> As Bill Sees It / Page 211<br /><hr><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1132799110710522342005-11-23T18:11:00.000-08:002005-11-23T18:25:10.733-08:00<div align="left"> </div><br /><div align="center"><h2>Daily Reflection for 11/23/05<hr /></h2></div><div align="center"> </div><h4>"Look to Ourselves...To Retain The Peace."</h4><br />"It is a spiritual axiom that every time we are disturbed no matter what the cause, there is something wrong with us.<br /><br />If somebody hurts us and we are sore, we are in the wrong also. We have found that justified anger ought to be left to those better qualified to handle it."<br /> 12 and 12 / Page 90<hr><br /><p> I remember being really angry when I first used to hear about this principal. I remember being angry about not being able to be angry. Who's going to tell me whether or not I can be angry? What does being an alcoholic or a drug addict have to do with any of this? Could this be part of the craziness that goes on in a <a href="www.passagesmalibu.com">Drug Rehab Facility</a>??</p><br /><p> I was way to wrapped up in myself to know anything at all. The point wasn't whether or not I had the right to be angry about something. <i>Of course</i> I had the right to be angry about anything I wanted. The point was that it <i>wasn't worth the time or effort</i>. <strong>Anger</strong> wasn't worth the time or effort because the stakes are so incredibly high for a drug addict & alcoholic.</p> <p>I just don't have the luxury of being incredibly & justifiably angry anymore because that leads to ego which leads to the delusion that I can drink and/or use drugs again.<br /> <br /><p>"The persistence of the illusion is astonishing" it says in Chapter 5, <em>How it Works</em>. Indeed. When astonished by something and in need of help, it's probably a good idea to go to those who are familiar with the problem, able & willing to help. In my case, it meant going to <a href="www.passagesmalibu.com">alcohol & drug rehab</a>. Thank goodness!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1132701664042559942005-11-22T14:39:00.000-08:002005-11-22T22:44:33.540-08:00Daily Reflection for 11/22/05<div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;"><h2><hr /></h2></span></div><span style="color:black;"><strong>"It Works... If You Work It."</strong><br /><strong></strong><br />Courtesy, kindness, justice, and love are the keynotes by which we may come into harmony with practically anybody. When in doubt we can always pause saying, "Not my will, but Thine, be done." And we can often ask ourselves, "Am I doing to others as I would Have them do to me -- today?"<br /><br />12 and 12 / Page 93 <hr /></span><br />How true this is. I know that I was <em>nowhere </em>close to the end of my drug abuse & drinking until I was absolutely ready to do anything and everything it took. I was ready to work the program because I <em>knew </em>I had no other choices, no other options. I'm not perfect--in fact I'm the furthest from perfect of anyone I know. But I'm trying and I'm always getting better to the best of my ability. Drugs & Alcohol no longer play a part in my life. What more can you ask for?<br />:)<br />*AP<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18919144.post-1132640032587161792005-11-21T21:53:00.000-08:002005-11-21T22:13:52.596-08:00Daily Reflection for 11/21/05<p>Today is My Father's Birthday. I want to thank him & my Mom for the dedication and unconditional love they provided me during my darkest hours. Not only did they get me into an incredible drug & alcohol rehab <em>twice</em>, but they did so with no reservations about what others might think or say. That was the "first step" in my just getting to a place where I would have the chance to embark upon my own recovery. <br /></p><br /><h3>The Lighter Side of Recovery From Drug & Alcohol Addiction<hr /></h3><br />During my early recovery from drug & alcohol addiction, my Dad often provided much-needed humor when I was nothing but down & depressed. These days, there is certainly no shortage of laughter; my friends & I laugh like fools and love it.<br /><br />I came across this poem recently from a good friend of mine in recovery. Perhaps it will provide a nice sentiment for someone else who needs it.<br /><br /><br /><span align=""><b><h3>Sober Eyes</h3></b></span><br />I sit here with my sober eyes<br />And take all of this in<br />Some guy just fell and pissed himself<br />Wait…he's back up again.<br /><br />In the corner this man sits alone<br />And talks to his shot of Jim Beam<br />I've lost count of how many he's had<br />Fifteen or twenty it seems.<br /><br />One girl is dancing and I'm afraid<br />Her mirror is telling her lies<br />For her skirt is struggling to contain<br />Her "telephone pole-like" thighs.<br /><br />Has caused her eyes to glaze<br />Her belt should be given overtime<br />Or at the very least, a raise.<br /><br />The alcohol that she's consumed<br />Has caused her eyes to glaze<br />Her belt should be given overtime<br />Or at the very least, a raise.<br /><br />There goes the drunk guy in for the kill<br />He wants to join in her dance<br />He hopes she's as drunk as he is<br />For maybe then, he'd have a chance.<br /><br />"Play me some Skynard", she screams to the band<br />And he can't believe what he heard.<br />For this woman seemed to pierce his soul<br />By just yelling out, "Freebird!"<br /><br />She sees him, she smiles, she pulls him in close<br />For a mate this woman does seek<br />They'd be dancing cheek to cheek.<br />It's closing time now and he gives her "the look"<br />She nods her head yes to the man<br />They leave the bar, and walk under the stars<br />Together, hand in hand.<br /><br />And as I drive home, I can't help but think<br />As that trailer is rockin' tonight<br />What will they think of each other…<br />When they're sober and in the daylight?<br /><br />Heck, maybe they'll go get married<br />And maybe they won't say goodbye<br />They might get matching airbrushed t-shirts<br />To go with his shiny black eye.<br /><br />But whatever happens, I'm just glad<br />That tonight I am alcohol free<br />Or else someone might be telling a story<br />About that same lady and me.<br /><hr /><br />Thanks bud, *AP<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.passagesmalibu.com"> Passages Malibu Drug Rehab Facility </a></div>AGPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06421019475675933296noreply@blogger.com0